Family Demands I Be Bridesmaid To Stepsis Marrying My Ex So Relatives Think Its Ok Or I'm Disowned i financed my wedding

by alsaCEMusic



FIRST STORY UPDATE:
Ss=step sister Cbf=current boyfriend Exbf=ex boyfriend

Before I update I want to thank you very very very much. When I wrote here I was so hurt and consumed with anger that I was planning a very cheap revenge on my ss. But since then and with the amazing advice I got from you I realized that pettiness isn’t the answer. I thought back and came to the conclusion that the only hurt I was feeling was because of my mum. Since my exbf cheated I have felt that my mum let me down by not supporting me. I don’t care about ss or exbf. I’m very happy with my life now and I love cb. I decided to try one last time to fix things with mum and explain to her how hurt I have been by her treatment. I also decided to tell her the truth.

On Friday I visited mum, she was alone at the house. I started by telling her that I was hurt about the “intervention” because I didn’t think I needed one. That I was hurt that she always took ss’s side, to please my stepdad, and that I have many reasons for not attending ss wedding.

While I don’t feel hurt anymore about her (ss) betrayal, our relationship has changed and I don’t see her as my sister anymore. I don’t feel obligated either to try and repair her reputation by going to her wedding. She made a very controversial life choice and even if I’m not hurt by it anymore she must’ve known people will be giving her a hard time and that I honestly don’t understand why she cared.

And lastly, I told her about cbf. I told her about ss probably still has feelings for him and it wouldn’t be nice for us to go to her wedding and ruin her day. I told her I wasn’t ready to make our relationship official yet and that if ss knew he would be my plus one she would change her mind about inviting me.

I saw that my mum was getting more and more upset the more I talked. When it came to the subject of cbf she was shaking with suppressed rage. After I finished she told me she was right in thinking that I’m a vindictive hag that she’s ashamed of me and that my bitterness is the reason I will end up alone. She told me I was pathetic for hooking up with ss’s old love and she forbade me from telling anyone about him. “And you should break up with him if you know what’s good for you” she threatened to tell cbf that I’m using him to get back at ss and then she kicked me out of her house.

Yesterday, when I was in the kitchen I heard the doorbell. Cbs opened and it was ss with exbf. When she saw cbs she asked what are YOU doing here. I came out of the kitchen and she was terrified and her eyes full with tears. Her plan was to sit and talk, me her and exbf to sort things out but when she understood what’s going on she started crying. She called me names, cursed me and threw the shoehorn I have in the entrance at me. She kept yelling HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME. Cbf asked them to leave and blocked her from getting at me. She left in tears, exbf confused after her.

Mum sent me a long email today telling me that she was disgusted by my actions (she thought I planned for ss to find out about cbf and me). She forbade me from ever contacting her or my sisters and told me that if I don’t end things with cbf immediately she will make breaking us up her priority. I showed cbf the email. He is very distraught. He asked me if I would consider moving to another city with him when I finish school and we move in together.

We’ll see what happens but I like his suggestion. It was the first time he talked about moving in together. I would’ve been over the moon if I wasn’t so heartbroken.

Story 1:
Tl;dr My stepsister is marrying my ex boyfriend and she needs me to attend and pretend I’m cool with her because people are giving her hard time for hurting me.
Story 2:
I ruined my sisters relationship by telling the truth about her past to her BF.
Story 3:
I’m withholding wedding money unless my fiancé kicks her maid of honor out of the wedding party.
Story 4:
My Girlfriend found a proposal ring that was not meant for her

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GC Reddit Stories 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Story 1: UPDATE in the Description
Story 2: 5:01
Story 3: 8:56
Story 4: 13:38

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For the love of cats 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

The OP from the first story should go to the wedding arm in arm with her bf with printouts of the screenshots and just throw them on the aisle like Regina George and watch how the disaster strikes the rotten family. And also try to get a restraining order against the family since her mother has promised to do everything to break her and cbf apart.

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Captain Awkward 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Story 1: wow, the update
Mom sucks, sister's unhinged

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Mark Mansell 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Brroklyn: OP has every right to decide if they don't want someone at THEIR wedding and the commenters saying otherwise are entitled aholes. If this is a breaking point for the partner then there should be no wedding, but NO ONE IS ENTITLED TO FORCE AN ABUSIVE PERSON ON THEIR PARTNER – BEFORE, DURING OR AFTER MARRIAGE. These m0rons need to bloody learn that, especially since they are abusers and being abusive to OP, themselves.

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Mark Mansell 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

When someone lies about you, it is ALWAYS your business to set the situation straight, regardless of the damage it does to the liar.

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Daniel's 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

In the first story after hearing and reading I think OP need to move to another city with cbf because the mom and ss are just horrible,I feel bad for her but she need to get the hell out and away from that family

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Namjoon’s Man Tiddies 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

1S: Did y’all see the update 😳 in the description?!?! SS is the golden child. The fact the mom got beyond angry at op for being with ss ex crush and even threatened to break them up is insane!!! The mom failed OP as a parent. SS is an entitled brat and exbf is a POS. Op better go no contact after that update & keep cbf FAR AWAY from those crazy people.

2S: To “forget” her past, Sister is just throwing everyone under the bus for it? OP was right in doing so. I wouldn’t doubt it if the parents then turn on OP Bc their daughter is gone again.

3S: This marriage is not gonna last. Why would wife still be friends with a person who actively disrespects her relationship? She even made her a MOH?! Yea this isn’t gonna last.

4S: Everything in this story sucks and is depressing. OP better not propose out of pity. Why not make it up to her with a nice vacation or something? Propose when the time is right and not out of pity!

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Carole Byer 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

First story: is it posible stepsister was one of the people he cheated with?

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Alice Soefje 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

I think you should go. Take your BF, who your step sister once had a crush on and still reaches out to. But be cold and distant to your sister and your ex. Maybe drop the word that your family forced you to come with threats of disowning you if you didn’t come. And make sure you say it to the biggest gossip in the family. Burn their lives down. But then I am petty.

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silver 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

1. Did ya'll read the update? Op really needs to fucking run from that shitty family like hell hounds are on her ass.

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Natasha 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Weres the update n the 1st story, that's not update

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john smith 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

I’m so glad I was born in a normal middle class family… sure we have had our issues and petty arguments like any other family, but would never betray each other and always stick up for each other against others.

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M Byerly 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

The new boyfriend needs to send the flirty texts from the stepsister to the old boyfriend. I doubt there will be a wedding after that. Problem solved. If OP takes her new boyfriend to the wedding, the bride will go ballistic with jealousy and end her marriage. Problem solved. If the family dumps OP, she won't have to watch her stepsister dangle herself all over OP's boyfriend like a dog in heat. Problem solved. OP has all the cards because stepsister is crazy and jealous.

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JAMES ARCIAGA 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

1….I never GRASPED the concept of an Ex being OFF LIMITS to friends and family….IF no one chooses to believe it when you say someone is an A-HOLE , youve done enough by warning them. Go to the show but don't buy them a gift or perform in it…

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Lois De Lisle 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

If you got a new boyfriend why you care about them. Show how you upgraded at the wedding.

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Jay Richards 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

But they are not ok that's the point. Stand your ground.

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Tired by Life. 💀 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Story 1: it's okay for stepsister to marry OP's ex but it's not okay for OP to be with someone her stepsister has a crush on (WHO ISNT THE ONE SHE IS MARRYING)

NTA and OP should cut all ties with her mom and her side.

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silverstar moon 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

The first story, nta and the timeline on stepsister and op's ex its seem suspicious.

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baconbubblegum 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

After reading the update for story one I think OP should be the one who disowns her family.

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C L 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Story 3 Brooklyn is into him that is why she wants them apart so bad and the first story ss is jealous probably because cb liked op the entire time and he probably even told ss that he liked op and ss decided the since op "stole her man " she would steal ops

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dulcilass 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Mom threatens to cut you off from the family if you don't come and play happy family. Simply do it first to her and the SS.
e-mail everyone in "the family" with what your mother has threatened you with. Then block Mom and
SS and/or change your phone number, You don't need those toxic, poisonous idiots in your life.

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itazuranakisu 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

OP won without doing anything – she got the guy the trashy entitled step sister really wanted (joke is on OP’s cheating ex), is moving forward with her relationship and no longer has to deal with the baggage of her family. Her “mother” burnt that bridge and I’m sure there will be a day when they go “but family” to guilt OP. Step sister will always be bitter and that’s her problem. She likely only dated the ex to hurt OP anyways and neither she or OP’s ex care about loyalty anyways.

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Ravencroft Graphics 3D 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

story 1… her and new BF should get instant married at town hall and then show up with a rock and ring with plus 1 as a guest only and NOT bring a gift.

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Traci M 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

I mean you have no business speculating on your sister sex life. Unless you were in the room you don’t know how many guys she had sex with so your telling your boyfriend she slept with 30 plus people was not an actual fact but just what you think so it gossip at best slander at worst. You where fine to mention some of the things but you haven’t really considered the difference between your point of view and everyone else perceptions of the events.

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Traci M 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

I find everyone in the first story an asshole. The hypocrisy of all sides is just ridiculous.

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Michael Woods 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Story 1- don't attend. If your family can threaten you with being disowned, they aren't family. Last story- kind of her fault for jumping the gun and telling everyone she knows.

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Craftybunny 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Seeing as the EX was cheating on OP and had also proposed to her…who's to say that the stepsister is actually going to get married?

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Liana V 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Second story…op is the ahole! People have every right to recreate themselves and why did op have to tell say she knew?? It was spiteful and mean. Op should have kept her mouth shut.

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Liana V 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

First story…it’s one thing to go, an entirely other thing to be in the wedding party!! Is her family crazy??!! That is just utter nonsense, it would be heck no from me no thanks see you later!

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Anna Bordelon 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Dump the fiance. Let her marry brooklyn

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NemFX 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Story one: Don't go. You deserve better. Them threatening to cut you off will do more harm to them, than to you.

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Amanda Stout 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Last story, here's what you tell her: "I was going to wait to propose when I figure we are in a MUCH better place financially to go for the wedding and everything. I've seen the proposing and engagement stage as when we are actively ready to plan the wedding. You know and I know we're not there financially. Note I said FINANCIALLY. You are still the best thing that has ever happened to me, and the woman I want to marry, when I can give you more than a courthouse and a honeymoon at the local tourist trap."

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The truth 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Story 1 : sure it's easy for the egg donor to say "get over it " when it's not it that was hurt..go to the wedding with your plus one op and drop poop at the lap of the bride and the egg donor then walk out and cut off the rest of the twits..

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Luc Germain 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

2 Story: Your sister bad-mouthed your parents who did so much for her and completely twisted the narrative to make herself seem like a better person. Sorry, but at that moment I would have cut loose, too and told her boyfriend everything, because he deserves to know the truth.
That's a certified Lana Rhoades moment, sister doesn't want to own up to her promiscuous cheater past because she knows exactly that any sane guy would be afraid of committing to a relationship with someone like her. It's a relationship based on lies anyway. Good on OP for telling him the truth, I'm willing to bet she would have hurt him sooner or later

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C S 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

S2: "She said she's changed so much and is a completely different person and wanted to put the past behind her." You know how you do that? By owning up to it, not hiding it, lying, and worse, throwing your family under the bus. She hasn't changed at all.

S3: Full stop. No. Just like baby names, wedding invites need two yesses to go through, and one no to veto. The only people that should be invited to your wedding are people who love and support you. Brooklyn may love your fiance, but she does not support your relationship and has actually tried to break you up several times! She is the LAST person you want giving a speech at your wedding.
Also, what's up with your fiance saying, "It's my best friend, she's coming to my wedding"?? When she's blatantly disrespected you, her fiance? If her best friend is more important to her than her fiance, then maybe she and Brooklyn should be getting married. Seriously, I'd put the wedding on hold, not just withhold money. This is a hill worth dying on. Your wedding vows will be about having each other's backs above anyone else's, and she's proving it's just words to her already.

S4: Sorry, I agree with the one commenter that said gf should not have assumed the ring was for her (and then blabbed about it to literally everyone!). There are all sorts of situations where rings can be in people's possessions: they're holding it for a friend, they had an ex and it was a family heirloom, they inherited it, etc. I have my mom's wedding ring from when she was married to my dad, my sister has our grandmother's wedding ring, and my cousin has her dad's (first) wedding ring.
I had a sneaking suspicion my now-hubby was going to propose. I didn't find a ring, but he sneakily measured my (left-hand) ring size lol. You know what I did? I kept my fucking mouth shut until the ring was on my finger. Then I announced it. =P

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Remi1532 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

1st story: This would bring out the spiteful bitch in me. I would go salt the earth burn on the whole family. Bitch wants to play? We'll play. I would show-up with my boyfriend, and have a slideshow play of all the messages she'd been sending him. I would also have a short video that would allude to the fact that he most likely cheated on me with her. The day would be talked about for generations to come. Mom wants to play favorites? Fine by me. I have no problem disowning her if she wants to choose her step-kid over her blood.

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JustinChristoph 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Second story: You cannot have a true relationship with a person based on lies. If the these were lies of omission where she didn't fully inform him the extent of her youthful mistakes, but didn't actually lie to him, that would be one thing. But she did lie to him and made herself the victim where she trashed and wrongly blamed her family for everything. You cannot trust people who do that. I don't blame him for breaking up with her. I'm not against becoming involved with people who had a messed up past on that alone. People can and do change and become better persons. But trying to completely rewrite history to excuse their faults tells me they haven't really changed.

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Space Tofu 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

4:19 Not going to lie, thats not even a rumor imo, thats a fact and that mother is desperate to look like a "proper family."

I can bet 10 bucks that with a rumor like that, marriage would be difficult, especially if its a Catholic/Christian wedding since no priest would be willing to marry the SS and the EX 🤷🏻‍♀️

I reccomend for OP to not just take a photo of herself and her BF during the day of the wedding but also ask the BF to post a screenshot of the SS pursing him while on a relationship with the EX. Petty revenge imo!

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kitsumekat 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

First story: My petty ass would bring my plus one and then make a petty speech about how the couple met and then tell them how the hoe sister is trying to cheat again and you need her to stop texting your boyfriend. On top of that, tell the family that you're disowning them because you're not going to be associated with a bunch of people who condone cheating. Finally, walk away from the family and go on vacation before moving away.

Second story: The boyfriend only broke up with her because the relationship was built on lies. Had she been honest, they would be together. Even if she finds another guy, I doubt she's going to be honest.

Third story: This is some revenge shit. But, a silver lining is that OP is seeing who Morgan is. I mean, Morgan cares more about keeping a toxic person around than realizing she's going to doom this wedding. I hope OP calls off this wedding until Morgan either gets rid of the friend or leave OP.

Fourth story: Big question is why did she think the ring was for her? Never assume everything is for you until they give it to you.

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Aiden And Oreo 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Bruh exploit mom with 100,000 dollars and if she says no just tell her you’re cutting them off. Or lace the wedding cake with a shit ton of colorless laxatives

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Meg 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Story 1: I actually get why she doesn't want to tell anyone about her new relationship. For one, it's something her step-sis can be 'angry' at her for. She can claim that OP is dating her new bf to spite her/get revenge. Not true but SS seems to think the world revolves around her.

Secondly, after the way her first relationship ended- one that was so serious she got engaged and her whole family knew about- that same family family ruined tried to make her minimize her feelings of hurt when her step-sis got with him. If I were in her shoes, I'd be afraid my family would do something to try and ruin my new relationship. I would probably find it hard to open up to the mom about it too.

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Rick Roll Rizal 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

The OP vs Brooklyn issue. OP already had a compromise. Brooklyn could go but not as part of the wedding party. And who had 3 MOH anyway?

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Amilikestea 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

I think the gf in the last story wasn't an AH but was still in the wrong. What if OP had been planning to propose? Everyone would know his plan before he was ready.

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Tish January 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Hope there is an update on the first one.

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Michael Gilson 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Pro tip to F, OP and anybody, if you want to hide a ring (or anything else) get a safety deposit box. Much less chance of somebody accidentally finding it, or it being lost.

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Eugenia Boone 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Story 1 Her step sister is just that. A sister that stepped on her heart with the betrayal and deceit. She was low key jealous of her sister and always want have you have. I would say to * with all of them. They seem like they care more about her sister than her. Love them from a very long distance. They sound narcissistic.😑😠

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ivan fontanez 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

The ring story what the hell she's going through your stuff in the first place good thats she's embarrassed

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Melody Ackerman 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

I'd go with the new boyfriend to ruin her day but I'm immature

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Michael Gilson 20/12/2021 - 4:14 Chiều

Since ex BF/ SS's fiancee cheated on OP, and SS is texting a crush while engaged to be married I have to wonder who's cheating will ultimately end their marriage. If OP has discrete friends, maybe they can set up a betting pool.

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